Frozen

I am numb..walking around in a blur...frozen.  Thats it..I am frozen.  How do you help someone when you know they need it but don't think they do??  How do you save them from killing themself, from ruining their life??  I cannot be around her 24 hours a day....I am exhausted...Hippa laws...privacy acts...what about protecting our children? I have no right to know how far deep into trouble she is, but I am responsible for her till she is 21, but cannot put her in a place to help her unless she wants to go...I ask how is that fair? I am her mom, and only want the best for her...I love her, from the bottom of my heart, for always and forver no matter what.